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I’m just SO hurt. SOOOO hurt!
OK. I have to try to make a long story short. My biological mom abused & neglected us @ birth, so we got taken away by the time we were 5 mos. Been with same FOSTER family since then until age 20. Foster family no less abusive.
We’re African American also mixed with Louisiana Creoles (IF & ONLY if the man named on my birth certificate is my biological father). But anyway, My bio mom had 9 kids, & only supposedly 3 or 5 of us are his.
12 yrs. ago, I was in 8th grade, & 1 of my 5 brothers told me that me & my twin sister don’t have the same dad as him because we’re not light-skinned. Our complexion is brown. The man named on our birth certificate is the same man that our mom has been married to for many yrs. This brother & other siblings described our so-called REAL father to be grotesque-looking & in a wheelchair with BIG eyes, brown skin, & crusty-nappy hair (they said that). Me & my twin sister have a smooth brown complexion with silky, thick, wavy hair. We have high cheekbones & people mistake us for being mixed with Asian. We have slanted eyes, just like my mom’s husband (man on birth certificate). He’s French & Native American Indian with straight, silky hair, an olive complexion like a Chinese person, & when he fought in the Vietnam war, they mistook him for the Vietnamese people. He was 32, & my mom was 15 when they got together. She was like 35, & he was 52 when they had us. Our mom is brown-skinned with crusty nappy hair & big, bubbly eyes that look like they’re about to pop out of the socket. But she has hazel/light brown, BEAUTIFUL eyes. We have dark brown eyes. I can’t tell my supposed dad’s eye color because he’s so old that you can’t tell, but they’re sort of bluish. He’s 77 now.
Many people say that if you don’t have a father (whether he’s deceased or you don’t know who he is), then that makes you a bastard. I don’t want to feel like a bastard. My mom is schizophrenic, & 1/2 of us 9 kids follow her delusions like it’s a religion or something. I’m 1 of them who doesn’t.
My mom’s husband (man on our birth certificate) has daughters for another woman, before our mom, & they’re brown-skinned.
The family makes up too many rumors, & I’m tired of it. There’s a rumor that us brown & dark-skinned kids are color-struck & jealous of the light-skinned kids, which is NOT the case.
With me, I don’t care about the skin color. I just need to know who my father REALLY is. We DO look 1/2-way like the man on our birth certificate. Why can’t we be his children & take after our mom’s complexion, like our other 1/2 sister from previous marriage did?
I’m confused about who my real father is, & I’m frustrated, angry, & sad.
Bad enough, we had a hard childhood in the foster home, being abused & tortured, & the foster mom adopted her cousin’s daughter. So, that daughter ran around school, telling everyone that we don’t know who our real parents are. Me & my twin sister got tired of that being thrown in our faces. Kids saying, “@ least I know who my REAL mama is!”
& the foster mom kept throwing in my face, “I should’ve left you nasty, filthy, dirty babies where I found y’all. Y’all were so nasty & dirty that the SOCIAL WORKERS were afraid to touch y’all!”
I didn’t get to see my real mom until I turned 18, & the social worker & foster mom got angry & tried to say we “ran away”. How, & I was a legal adult, attending college?
If the man named on our birth certificate is NOT my real father, then why am I getting Social Security Survivor’s benefits & medicare off of him? Wouldn’t that be illegal if I’m not his real child?
I don’t want to appear to be doing anything illegal. We were told all throughout foster care (same family for about 20 yrs.) that “both” parents on birth certificate are our real parents.
Now, so many mixed up stories. I wish I could get a DNA test, but the WHOLE family would start tripping. I’m tired of them falsely accusing me of being color-struck, when I’m truly NOT. If the man on our birth certificate is really our dad, then I have no control over him being light-skinned. My mom chose him. Not us.
Me & 1 of my brothers just had a discussion about the “daddy” subject. THEY always tease me & rub it in my face about the man not being me & my twin sister’s daddy.
Also, my birth mom is SO delusional that she’s trying to make it like everything typed on our birth certificate is WRONG. How could federal documents make the same mistake twice?
I was born Aug. 25, 1983 @ 10:23 PM, & my twin sister was born 13 min. later. The certificate says we’re identical, & so did foster family & social workers. Birth mom wants to say we’re fraternal, & that our b-day is on the 24th, & not the 25th. She’s saying that to try to be funny because it was our 18th b-day. Aug. 25, 2001 when my fav. singer Aaliyah died in a plane crash.
& they just don’t want our b-day to be associated with her death. We can’t help if the singer died ON our
She’s saying that to try to be funny because it was our 18th b-day. Aug. 25, 2001 when my fav. singer Aaliyah died in a plane crash.
& they just don’t want our b-day to be associated with her death. We can’t help if the singer died ON our b-day.
As I said, my mom is delusional. She’s 60 yrs. old & starts rumors about her own kids, just to get us to hate each other. She wants to get the light-skinned kids to have war with the darker-skinned kids, like me. Now, I’m 25 with a college degree. These rumors hurt me, & I feel like it’s unfair that people are calling me immature for wanting to know the true facts of my life.
I haven’t seen my birth mom UNTIL age 18. Not even any photos! Foster & birth mom have been beefing with (hating) each other for yrs. So, the foster mom said our bio mom’s rights were taken away from us when we were 2 yrs. old. I don’t remember that, @ 2 yrs. old. So, quite naturally, if you’re a foster/adopted child, & basically never or don’t remember seeing your real
So, quite naturally, if you’re a foster/adopted child, & basically never or don’t remember seeing your real family, wouldn’t it be normal to have LOTS of questions to ask & be very curious?
I’m very sad right now, & I feel like crying. My details were longer than I anticipated. Sorry about that, but please help me. Give me some advice & REASSURE me that there’s nothing wrong with me wanting to know who my real father is.
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